Recently, I was in a meeting and a charity came up someone had heard about in another town. The concept was simple and it was an event completely structured for the group at the table. We were all well-equipped and excited about the idea. Keep in mind, in this meeting we were trying to select a new charitable activity for the group.
Someone suggested we host a similar event here. The head of the meeting immediately shot it down, and said “we’ll just wait until that group comes here to do one.” No one batted an eyelash. I chimed in questioning why we would wait on a simple idea we could handle that would help many, and I was told they knew the way to do it, so when they started doing things here, then we could get involved. Wait. WHAT?
This logic is everywhere and it’s KILLING me. The following just occurred and it is apparently normal logic?!
- We saw a need
- We had the tools to address said need
- We had people excited to help and a clear plan of action
- We chose to ignore the need because we expect an organization to eventually address it for us and maybe we can help?!
Am I being punked? We were given everything we needed to help, but chose to wait for someone else to come along and do it.
It’s easy to not give and to hide your gifts when you don’t have to connect with your service. How hungry would the world be if we all put a face and name on it. Would you could a meal for 8 instead of 4 every night, if you knew their names and they lived next door? You would figure that out, but we don’t want to share the pain, the discomfort.
I see so many political posts about wanting more government programs to fix this problem and that problem. My question is “what are YOU waiting for?” If you feel so passionately that a group or issue should be helped, how are you personally connecting to the problem, pouring your time or assets in to fixing it and actively looking for solutions?
Don’t bury your talent. Don’t be that sad wasted gift. Sitting in that room in that moment, it couldn’t have been clearer that I would, from that day forward. be incessantly hounded by serving where I could. I pray the same for you 😀